What is ovulation?
Unfortunately, until now only one method allows you to plan the baby’s gender 100% – IVF.
But it is not available to everyone, and not every couple needs it. However, studying the processes of pregnancy has given insight into what needs to be done in order to be more likely to become pregnant with a boy. Many couples calculate the sex of the baby based on ovulation and most get the desired result.
Ovulation is one of the basic concepts of this method. Those who want to become the mother of a boy need to monitor these processes in their body. What's going on?
Let's start with the fact that every female body initially contains about a million, or even more, eggs. Only a few of them will have the opportunity to give a new life. Some will remain in a “dormant” state, the rest will ripen, but will die, remaining unfertilized, and will be excreted from the body during menstruation.
Attention! By the beginning of the first menstruation, only 300-400 thousand eggs will remain!
The eggs are located in special “sacs” - follicles. Here they will remain until they reach full readiness for fertilization. Usually several pieces, from 10 to 15, “wake up” at once, and immediately begin to increase in size.
As soon as this happens, the process of ovulation begins: eggs are released from their follicles. It ends at the moment of their complete release. This action lasts a few minutes.
Free eggs, ready for fertilization, immediately pick up the villi of the fallopian tubes and transfer them to the uterus. The next day she is completely ready to conceive. This will happen when it meets a sperm.
What's the trick here?
The fact is that “male” sperm containing that very Y chromosome are very mobile, but generally live no more than a day. “Female” specimens are much more tenacious, but slow and heavy. Thus, two conditions must be met:
- Prevent the presence of X sperm in the fallopian tubes at the time of ovulation;
- Provide open contact 12 hours before or 12 hours after egg release. In this case, Y-sperm will be the first to reach their desired destination.
Boy planning.
How to conceive a boy by ovulation with 100% result. Read more about the characteristics of sperm here.
How to make a calendar and calculate the day?
The ovulation calendar can play a big role in planning a boy. Composing it is not such a problem. Today there are a number of programs that can be installed on a PC or smartphone and can be used to track the time of ovulation.
Calculators
To do this, you will need to enter data about the duration of the menstrual cycle, as well as the start and end time of each menstruation.
Attention! The time of ovulation may shift in a certain cycle due to stress, drinking a large portion of alcohol, unusually high physical activity, etc.
Methods by feeling
For a more accurate personal calendar, you will have to put in a little more effort. It is necessary to record data about the time of ovulation for several months. It always happens approximately in the middle of the cycle, 14 - 16 days before the day the first discharge appears. There are several ways to accurately recognize these days:
- by basal temperature. If you measure it every morning, you will notice that one day it will immediately drop by 2-3 tenths of a degree. This is a sure sign of the onset of ovulation. By the next morning the temperature will rise by 4-6 tenths;
- by vaginal discharge. The closer ovulation is, the more transparent and liquid they become, more and more reminiscent of the white of a raw egg;
- by changes in libido. Many women note that they want sex more at this time;
- using ovulation tests. They are sold in pharmacies, their principle of operation is similar to that used in pregnancy test strips;
- using ultrasound monitoring, when specialists monitor the stages of follicle growth using equipment.
How to conceive a boy by blood
When planning the gender of a child, a method is often used based on the theory according to which a woman’s blood renewal occurs every 3 years, and for men – every 4. To calculate, simple calculations are carried out: a woman’s age is divided by 3, a man’s by 4, after which the results are compared.
It is believed that renewed blood is the strongest, and therefore wins when conceiving a baby. If the blood of the future father is younger, that is, the remainder is smaller, then we should expect the appearance of an heir.
With this method, important nuances should be taken into account. If there were serious blood losses, then the countdown should begin from the date of the last incident, and not from the day of birth. If the mother is Rh negative, then the calculation is carried out using the oldest blood.
Table of when is the best time to conceive a boy
The Chinese method is quite common, which is a table in which, based on the woman’s age, the probable gender of the baby is determined in each calendar month. Thus, based on the data in the table, it is clear how to conceive a boy, namely when you need to have sex more intensely.
According to the Japanese system for calculating the conception of a boy, data from two tables is used. The first table determines the number corresponding to a married couple. It is indicated at the intersection of the month of birth of the future parents, vertically - mom and horizontally - dad. Using this number, you need to find in the second table the month opposite which in the “boy” column there is the largest number of crosses. For example, a couple with the number 5 has the greatest likelihood of conceiving an heir in September.
How to conceive a boy: reviews
- I planned the gender of the children myself, there were no failures. I recommended it to my friends, and everything worked out for them, too. Method for changing blood. If the year of conception coincides with the “old” blood of the future father, then there will be a girl, with the “young” blood - a boy. This does not work if the mother is Rh negative (the opposite is true) or after an abortion. It is necessary that the father's blood be significantly younger, then there will be a 100% effect. I wish everyone good luck!
- We were planning a second boy, so we had sex every day. It turned out to be a boy, although in our generation neither my nor my husband’s side produced heirs. I think there is a large percentage of chance.
It is worth noting that these methods do not provide a 100 percent guarantee that a boy will be born if you use them, however, they significantly increase this probability.
How to conceive a boy?
As you know, the father is largely responsible for the gender of the unborn child.
A woman is a carrier of one type of chromosome - X. A man has two - X and Y. Each sperm contains only one. And who is destined to be born depends on which of them manages to connect with the egg. If it is an X sperm, then a girl will be born, if Y, a boy.
Attention! The method of calculating sex by ovulation is by far the most accurate. Its probability is 75%.
Of course, no one has yet learned how to control sperm, but scientists have found that the two types of sperm behave differently. This means that it is possible to “adjust” the process of conception to the behavior of sperm with the “right” chromosome. This is what the ovulation method of conception is based on.
It is known that sperm carrying the Y chromosome are smaller, more mobile and more active. These are “sprinters” who reach the egg faster. But they live much shorter than those that carry the X chromosome. Within a day, the “boy” sperm will die, while the slower “girl” sperm will wait for a mature egg for several more days. And if ovulation occurs 2-3 days after intercourse, then a girl is more likely to be born.
Mathematical and scientific approach to calculating ovulation
There are exact dates for the days of conception in order to “get” a boy. But first of all, the day of ovulation is determined using any of the methods:
- calendar method of calculation;
- use of tests;
- drawing up a schedule for rectal temperature measurements;
- using ultrasound.
You can calculate the conception of a boy using the ovulation calendar.
Now let's try to calculate the conception of a boy by ovulation, determining the time of its onset using the menstrual cycle calendar. The latter is defined as the number of days from the start until the day of the next menstruation. Here's more about it:
Knowing that the second phase is a constant value and lasts 14 days, it is not difficult to calculate the day the egg is released. And using the ovulation calendar, the conception of a boy is calculated by subtracting a constant 14 days from the length of the cycle. From this mathematical operation we obtain the settlement day.
For example, with a 29-day cycle, the initial number will be 15 (29-14=15). It is believed that if sexual intercourse occurs on this day, the birth of a male child is possible.
From the biology course, we know that a woman is not able to influence gender (she has X chromosomes), and male sex cells are of two types: X and Y. Y cells are fast and impetuous, but with a short life expectancy. They can stay in the genitals for about a day, unlike X, which move slowly, but can live in the fallopian tube, waiting for the female cell, for up to 3-5 days.
Only Y chromosomes are suitable for conceiving a boy
In order for the egg to be fertilized by a Y-sperm and a boy to be conceived, taking into account the short period of their life, they must enter the tube exactly at the moment the cell emerges or within the next 24 hours in order to have time to overtake their slow brothers. This means that calculating ovulation for conceiving a boy is necessary in order to determine the optimal moment of sperm penetration and meeting with the egg.
How to plan correctly?
Considering the different behavior of sperm, planning to conceive a boy is not so difficult.
The couple will be required to follow several rules:
- Monitor ovulation carefully. A thermometer to measure the temperature in the rectum, ovulation tests or ultrasound monitoring will help with this. The more accurately a woman knows the time of ovulation, the greater the chance of becoming pregnant with a boy.
- Sexual intercourse should take place no more than 12 hours before expected ovulation. Then there is a high probability that sperm carrying the Y chromosome will not die. The more time passes from the moment they enter the body until the mature egg leaves the follicle, the less chance they have to survive.
How to conceive a boy: folk signs?
For a long time, people have known many ways to conceive a boy according to folk superstitions. For example, it is believed that in order to conceive a boy, “male objects” should be placed in the bed before sexual intercourse: a knife, a saw, an ax, a stone. By the way, it is better to schedule a sex “session” in the morning or during the day, on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday or Saturday.
As for the time of year, hot summer time is more conducive to conceiving a boy. During this period, in addition, a man has more opportunity to walk barefoot as often as possible - at home, in the country, by the river, which is also favorable for conceiving a boy.
As for “preparing” a woman: to conceive a male child, it is recommended to drink a glass of cranberry jelly 5 days before sexual intercourse every night at night, 20 minutes before bed. Immediately before sexual intercourse, a woman needs to bandage the little finger of her left hand with a simple thread, and a man needs to bandage his left testicle. To successfully conceive a boy, it is better for a man to go to bed wearing a distinctly “masculine” headdress, while a woman needs to wear underwear made from used wrestlers’ loincloths (you can replace the bandage, for example, with wrestling pants).
It is believed that if before conception a man has not had intimate contact with the woman he loves for a long time, then a boy will most likely be conceived during sex. And for greater confidence, you can lie with your head to the north - people say that sexual intercourse in this case has every chance of resulting in the birth of a boy in 9 months.
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What other factors will help you get pregnant with your son?
There are several more “tricks” that will help the sperm carrying the Y chromosome get to the target. It is known that they are adversely affected by the acidic environment that can be in the vagina.
Therefore, a woman planning to give birth to a boy should reconsider her lifestyle some time before ovulation.
Helps reduce acidity:
- a diet that includes plenty of fruits and vegetables, as well as almonds and lemon or lime juice;
- drinking regime: it is recommended to drink at least 10 glasses of water per day;
- regular exercise;
- reducing or completely eliminating caffeine.
Attention! The chance of conceiving a boy increases significantly if a woman has had an orgasm. It helps to make the vaginal environment more alkaline, which is beneficial for sperm.
There is also a dependence on how often the future father has sex. Experts say that those who dream of a son should not abuse this. 4 - 5 days before ovulation, it is better for partners to completely abstain from sexual activity. Due to this, the concentration of sperm carrying the Y chromosome will increase. Otherwise, X sperm will predominate.
Most of the "boy" sperm will be released after the first sexual intercourse. If this is not stopped, then in subsequent acts a large number of “girl” chromosomes will penetrate into the female body. Therefore, on the day chosen for conception, you need to be able to stop in time.
Poses
Position is also of great importance for conceiving a child of the desired gender.
Since Y-sperm are not very tenacious, care should be taken to shorten their path to their cherished goal to a minimum. This is necessary so that they do not die during the journey. To do this, choose positions with deep penetration of the penis into the vagina. There are not so few of them.
Cowgirl
The man lies on his back, the woman is on top, trying to spread her legs as wide as possible.
Dashing rider
If you slightly change the standard cowgirl position, this will allow the penis to penetrate even deeper. To do this, the man lying on his back needs to spread his legs wider, and the woman sits on top not directly, but slightly “diagonally”, throwing her right leg over the man’s left leg, and leaving her left leg between his legs.
Man from behind
There are two variations of this pose. During the first, partners can sit directly on the bed. At the same time, the woman kneels and elbows, the man kneels behind her. For the second variation you will need support. For this purpose, the headboard of a bed or sofa, as well as a table, chest of drawers, etc. will do. A woman needs to lean her body on it, bending her body at a right angle. Then the man will position himself behind her on straight or slightly bent legs.
Shoulderstand
With practice, this position turns out to be not as difficult as in the description, but it allows the penis to penetrate the vagina to the maximum depth.
To ensure this, a woman needs to lie on her back, then raise her legs and pelvis as high as possible, and then lower her legs behind her head, spreading them slightly apart. The man will position himself on top, supporting his partner.
On the chair
For this pose you will need a high chair or a suitable table. Their height should be such that the vagina of the woman sitting on it and the penis of the man standing in front of her are at the same height. The partner can lean on her elbows, and spread her legs and lower them onto the shoulders of the partner standing in front of her.
